Comments on: For the first time, married households no longer the majority

By: Michael

Michael — Fri, 20 Oct 2006 17:56:42 +0000

The chaos generated by the loss of identity and shift in values leads to further deterioration.

What does that mean???

Neither popular culture (as define by our mass media) nor “politically correct” positions, present the traditional family structure and gender-roles as desireable ideas. “Traditional” has been redefined as old fashion and unworkable, while all other “non-traditional” structures or groupings are shown as normal and common.

How strong must you be to … endure the denigration of the idea that a man should be a loving and faithful husband, a provider, protector and strong father? …And the idea that a woman should be a loving and faithful wife, an industrious, nurturing home maker and loving mother?

Even a good man and woman are not perfect, nor are they prepared to raise a family when they first marry. But when given an clear ideal to aim at, they can make progress in the right direction and grow together. The way is not easy, but love, respect and a solid stable family life are its rewards.

It’s so much easier to take the route extolled in the entertainment media; to live for the moment, only for your own pleasure and eschew responsibility. By taking this route, many in prior generations have raised (or “not raised”) their kids in choatic homes, rife with multiple divorces/re-marriages, shack-ups and more. All leading up to future generations, growing up, knowing that marriage doesn’t work. After all, they never saw a good marriage, so they must not exist.

By: katy

katy — Thu, 19 Oct 2006 15:59:00 +0000

Root of the problem? One cause is the breakdown of morals and absolute standards. It’s all relative, they say. Everyone can do whatever he thinks is right in his own eyes, without regard for consequences or how it affects other people. Children not brought up in a stable home in turn bring baggage into their relationships and so goes the cycle.
Maintaining a good marriage is not easy. It takes work, perserverance, unselfishness, patience, kindness, maturity, etc. etc. If people just want to be happy with a short term view, they miss out on the long term happiness and satisfaction of a lasting marriage and stable family.

By: mondine

mondine — Thu, 19 Oct 2006 08:28:20 +0000

I suppose it depends upon how you look at it.
I don’t find it either “sad”, or “a problem” that people choose to define their own relationships without the imposition of an indoctrinated, hierarchical structure.

The failure rate of ‘traditional’ marriage has passed the 50% mark long ago, never to look back. The best reason for not doing something is because it doesn’t work.